When it comes to the possibility of intimate relations with your husband it is
important to remember your marriage vows and in particular your commitment to
obey him. If he feels that he needs to sleep immediately then so be it.

In all things be lead by your husband's wishes, do not pressure him in any way
to stimulate intimacy. Should your husband suggest congress then accede humbly
all the while being mindful that a man's satisfaction is more important than a
woman's. When he reaches his moment of fulfilment a small moan from yourself is
encouraging to him and quite sufficient to indicate any enjoyment that you may
have had. Should your husband suggest any of the more unusual practices be
obedient and uncomplaining but register any reluctance by remaining silent.

It is likely that your husband will then fall promptly asleep so adjust your
clothing, freshen up and apply your night time face and hair care products. You
may then set the alarm so that you can arise shortly before him in the morning.
This will enable you to have his morning cup of tea ready when he awakes.