9 osob zamordowali dzisiaj zydzi w Palestynie

[Gość: misiek_antyjudaist]

www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A18115-2003Feb16.html

6 osob zamordowanych w Gazie. 3 w West Bank.

zydoski smierdziel,GW, nie uznal informacji za warta
uwagi.

@@@@@@CONVERSION TO JUDAISM

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HOW TO TELL PEOPLE ABOUT YOUR CONVERSION TO JUDAISM

There is no right answer to the question of when to tell people about your
decision to convert to Judaism. In this section, I am going to discuss telling
your parents about the conversion, although these general ideas can be applied
to telling others as well.

People vary greatly in their approach. Some write a letter. Others talk over
dinner. Some drop hints, such as giving books on Judaism, to get their parents
used to the idea of conversion. Some never tell a parent.

You should decide, in consultation with a partner, a rabbi, a trusted friend,
or a counselor about the best approach for you. I have asked various people
with a lot of experience about this issue. This section is a summary of their
views. Do not, however, take these suggestions as the ones you should
necessarily follow. You need, most of all, to trust your own judgment. Only you
know the situation best. Here, then, are the suggestions:

(1) Think through your feelings. Practice talking them out. Consider rehearsing
telling your parents.

(2) Most experts think telling parents in person and to both parents at the
same time is best. Obviously, this is the very moment that many people find the
most difficult. If this is not possible, consider alternatives.

(3) Telling your parents as soon as possible is best. The danger in delay, such
as by only dropping hints at first, is that the parents will hear about the
conversion from others or unintentionally provide awkward moments at family
gatherings. Ideally, telling parents should be done prior to a wedding to allow
all parents to participate in the planning of the wedding. Such participation
reenforces the idea that parents are not being abandoned.

(4) There is no special time to tell. Of course, such an announcement shouldn't
be made during days of obvious religious significance, such as Easter or
Christmas, or even obvious personal significance such as a birthday or
anniversary.

(5) There is a difference of opinion among those with whom I spoke about
whether or not to bring a Jewish partner to the discussion. Most people said it
was better to speak to parents alone. Others needed the support and help their
partners gave during this potentially difficult time.

(6) In telling your parents about your conversion, discuss what you find
attractive about Judaism, how it met a particular need, how it helped a
relationship, how you feel closer to, not further from, your parents, in part
because of Judaism's emphasis on family. Make it clear that it was your choice
to convert and the conversion was not due to emotional pressure from your
partner or partner's family. This statement of your reasons needs to be
accompanied by reassuring your family of your continuing love, of the obvious
fact that you will always be their child and be part of the family. Some
parents feel they are being rejected, so it is crucial to tell them that is not
the case.

(7) Be prepared for a range of reactions from support to shock to total
disapproval. In general, remain calm, show an understanding of any resistance
to the idea of converting, and stick to your views. Be polite, but firm.

(8) Follow up a visit with a letter or phone call.

The vast majority of converts with whom I have spoken report that they received
support from their parents, or some initial resistance and then support. There
were cases, however, of continuing resistance.

If your parents do reject your religious conversion, remember that parents may
in time change. In the meanwhile, seek support from your partner and from
within the Jewish community while constantly seeking continued communication
with your parents.

Perhaps most of all, try to maintain a sense of humor and a clear display of
love.

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[_helga]

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jewhaterexterminator napisała:

> HOW TO TELL PEOPLE ABOUT YOUR CONVERSION TO JUDAISM
>
> There is no right answer to the question of when to tell people about your
> decision to convert to Judaism. In this section, I am going to discuss
telling
> your parents about the conversion, although these general ideas can be
applied
> to telling others as well.
>
> People vary greatly in their approach. Some write a letter. Others talk over
> dinner. Some drop hints, such as giving books on Judaism, to get their
parents
> used to the idea of conversion. Some never tell a parent.
>
> You should decide, in consultation with a partner, a rabbi, a trusted friend,
> or a counselor about the best approach for you. I have asked various people
> with a lot of experience about this issue. This section is a summary of their
> views. Do not, however, take these suggestions as the ones you should
> necessarily follow. You need, most of all, to trust your own judgment. Only
you
>
> know the situation best. Here, then, are the suggestions:
>
> (1) Think through your feelings. Practice talking them out. Consider
rehearsing
>
> telling your parents.
>
> (2) Most experts think telling parents in person and to both parents at the
> same time is best. Obviously, this is the very moment that many people find
the
>
> most difficult. If this is not possible, consider alternatives.
>
> (3) Telling your parents as soon as possible is best. The danger in delay,
such
>
> as by only dropping hints at first, is that the parents will hear about the
> conversion from others or unintentionally provide awkward moments at family
> gatherings. Ideally, telling parents should be done prior to a wedding to
allow
>
> all parents to participate in the planning of the wedding. Such participation
> reenforces the idea that parents are not being abandoned.
>
> (4) There is no special time to tell. Of course, such an announcement
shouldn't
>
> be made during days of obvious religious significance, such as Easter or
> Christmas, or even obvious personal significance such as a birthday or
> anniversary.
>
> (5) There is a difference of opinion among those with whom I spoke about
> whether or not to bring a Jewish partner to the discussion. Most people said
it
>
> was better to speak to parents alone. Others needed the support and help
their
> partners gave during this potentially difficult time.
>
> (6) In telling your parents about your conversion, discuss what you find
> attractive about Judaism, how it met a particular need, how it helped a
> relationship, how you feel closer to, not further from, your parents, in part
> because of Judaism's emphasis on family. Make it clear that it was your
choice
> to convert and the conversion was not due to emotional pressure from your
> partner or partner's family. This statement of your reasons needs to be
> accompanied by reassuring your family of your continuing love, of the obvious
> fact that you will always be their child and be part of the family. Some
> parents feel they are being rejected, so it is crucial to tell them that is
not
>
> the case.
>
> (7) Be prepared for a range of reactions from support to shock to total
> disapproval. In general, remain calm, show an understanding of any resistance
> to the idea of converting, and stick to your views. Be polite, but firm.
>
> (8) Follow up a visit with a letter or phone call.
>
> The vast majority of converts with whom I have spoken report that they
received
>
> support from their parents, or some initial resistance and then support.
There
> were cases, however, of continuing resistance.
>
> If your parents do reject your religious conversion, remember that parents
may
> in time change. In the meanwhile, seek support from your partner and from
> within the Jewish community while constantly seeking continued communication
> with your parents.
>
> Perhaps most of all, try to maintain a sense of humor and a clear display of
> love.
>
> Return to Main Page

[piotr33k2]

o 9 za mało z tobą na czele mendo!

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piotr33k2 napisał:

> o 9 za mało z tobą na czele mendo!

Czyli, ze niby 18 to by byla liczba akuratna? A dlaczego akurat 18?

[zyd_pederasta]

9 ARABKOW MNIEJ !!!!!!!!!

BIG DEAL !!!!