Single Polish Female

[Gość: Kogu]

Hi ho,
Thats true and I knew about it the first time I met a polish girl and guy. This behavior speaks in every single reply when it comes to women, mothers and marrige :)
On the other side, in the old days in Germany it was the same just worse as the father gave the girls away and only he was allowed to choose their partner.
In 1945 when most men been dead or worse, the women rebuilt Germany and after the men been back they tried to get the women again into slavery but they refused and instead kicked the mens arse. Ever since the avg marrige is 30+ and children not before 35. Most famlies, if they have children at all, have 1.
If you look on this all: I do not believe a late marrige is better then an early one for even those marriges end 12 years later.
The problem is not: do I marry at 20 or 30, the problem is that sociaty says: if u dont like ure partner, get a new one. Hardly any couple today believes they are truely bound to each other. They know they can always replace Husband 1.0 with Husband 2.0 for that there is no need to resolve marrige problems. IF at all, the magazines for couples speak of spicing up the sex life. Claiming that this is the true reason why a marrige fails. And for people that get married cause of sex ... I actually believe it to be true but I find that VERY disturbing.
But true on the other side as sociaty says: a woman and a man need to have many Ex-relationships and have had XXX ppl in their beds to know what life is about. Its all about quantity these days while only a relationship lets u have quality. So at 45 ppl have a chat with a single hearing he/she had 50 lovers and they start to think what they missed out on and start cheating and get devorced.
You can start to wonder if this will be a discribtion of Poland in 20 years.
Regards,
Kogu - German reader