I need with girls

[pengo1]

Im not a loner, not fat, not short. I'm not ugly, im not the sexyist man
alive. But im pretty good looking, what the hell is wrong with me why can't I
ever find a chick, It's probably because im a little shy and that I get
afraid to talk to girls I guess. What the hell is wrong!

Ia mozem czita polski no nie pisac. Proszem.

[pengo1]

btw im 16\M, 5'11" 140 pounds , brown hair, Tan(from cali), im not buff ,
im ... normal.

[peruwian]

I'm just like you.....not the best, not the worst..and I'm a little shy...it
took me a while till i got a chick, but its not all that great, cause you will
probably end up getting your heart broken, and then you will feel like shit...

[tayemniczy]

5"11, 140 pounds, lanky. maybe get out and play some sport and build up some
muscle? go and hang out with mates at the local pool or beach or mall or
whatever. don't go out lookin for chicks treat that as your secondary objective

[vokulsky]

dont put girls as your number 1 priority because chances are, the first one you
find will break your heart and it will never work out....only put girls as your
#1 priority if you are seriously in love with a girl, but don't just go looking
for some random chick...

[peruwian]

There's more to life than getting girls. It'll happen, and I can more or less
guarantee it'll happen when you least expect it, so if it's that much of a
problem to you, your best bet is to forget about it and do something else. When
a girl finally does want to hook up with you, presuming you're similarly
inclined, that's when you put your best foot forward and show her what all the
rest of them missed out on.

[tayemniczy]

how old are you? your only 16? just wait and you WILL find the ONE

[regular]

same problem here, ive decided to take a new thoery up. think about it this
way... u have nothing to lose, i have not acted upon this theory yet but i
will. see i am hereby gonna banish my shyness with my motto "fuck it" screw
what happens, go down to the busist shopping mall and walk up and talk to which
ever chicks take ur fancy. coz chances are u'll never see them again and since
they dont know u yet nor ur name it doesnt matter what happens. ur first few
will fail very badly but soon u'll pick up a pattern and know what to say.
after that it should be a piece of cake. ok its only in the theory stage right
now but im still thinking it over, wha6 do u guys think?

[peruwian]

You're only 16, chill, you have a while to go before you can consider yourself
a permanently dateless loser..
Honestly, I didn't really seriously date anyone till I turned 18..

Why don't you spend some time and think about the kind of girl you would really
like.. Write it down, what she looks like, what sort of things she likes to do,
what her personality is like, that kind of thing...

Then realise you probably don't know that many girls like that, and that
really, you're choosing to wait until this really cool girl comes along before
you start dating..

Look at it as not a failure to get girls on your part, look at it as waiting
for the right one.. and do other stuff to entertain yourself while you're
waiting.. The more interesting things you do, the more interesting you become,
the more stories you have to tell, the more fun you are to be around.. So when
she does come around, you're gonna be exactly what SHE's looking for too..

[regular]

I seem to have a different girl every 2 weeks. Its not that i'm good looking or
intelligent. I'm actually pretty ugly. Just go to places like parties, gigs and
anything your good at. For example if your really good at skating go down to a
skate park and impress the girls there. I always have the most luck at gigs.
I've only been to 2 gigs where i havn't got a girl. Girls at gigs are really
easy and will keep you occupied for a few days. They're not too good for long
term relationships though.
On the note of long-term relationships the best things to do is just forget
about them. Wait till someone actually shows an interest in you. It might take
a whole year but it will happen. Whatever happens never let the girl become
your number 1 priority. In the end it will just break your heart.

My advice on relationships:

Take things slower than you'd like
Don't plan anything
Never get your hopes up
If you meet a girl let her ask for YOUR number
If a girl doesn't look interested move onto the next one

I did have more but i've forgotten them lol

[sheridan1]

I see a lot of people saying just to wait and Miss Perfect will come to you
some day. Well chances are, she is waiting too, even more than you are.
Try to interact with girls whenever you can, you'll get better the more you do
it, so you gotta start somewhere.

[tayemniczy]

sheridan1 napisał(a):

> I see a lot of people saying just to wait and Miss Perfect will come to you
> some day. Well chances are, she is waiting too, even more than you are.
> Try to interact with girls whenever you can, you'll get better the more you
do
> it, so you gotta start somewhere.
>
>
> Nothing is a bigger turn off than desperation. The universe loves setting up
feedback loops in life to wit:
If you're depressed you don't feel like doing much which means you don't do
anything to change the situation and you get more depressed.

Same thing with sex. The more you want it the less you'll get it. The more your
get the more it's offered to you. People having regular sex have an easy air
about themselves and have a confidence from not NEEDING to bag a babe. The
chicks dig the confidence and throw themselves at you. If you're desperate and
horny you come across as a sad perv and the girls wrinkle their nose at you. If
you're not gettin' it don't worry about it. Focus on something else you'll
cycle to a state of plenty eventually

>

[peruwian]

Why do you want a girl, relantionship or purely for lustful purposes?
If the answer is the latter is suggest you go get fucked out of your head(on
your drug of choice) and when you wake up, you will find an attempt of a girl
next to you.

However if you wish to have a long-term relationship with a chick, your gonna
have to figure it out yourself.

IP:

[vokulsky]

How often do you shower? No offense but in your age...

Just be yourself.

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